Tuesday, September 27, 2016

The Favorite Son Saga: Our Choice for President

Mr. Trump and Secretary Clinton

So, The Favorite Son and I watched the first presidential debate last night featuring the two “major” party candidates, Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump. TFS even wanted to make popcorn, which we did.

Like a lot of things, we made the popcorn the old-fashioned way on the stove in an iron pot with oil and salt.

If you've paid attention, you already know I am not a fan of either of the dominant political parties in the United States and I have either been registered to either a third-party or as an independent for at least 18 years. During the debate, however, TFS tried to get me to commit, “Who are you leaning toward, Dad?”

“Someone who isn’t on the stage,” I answered.

About half of the way through the debate, The Second Beautiful Daughter came home from studying with a friend after her swim meet. The first thing she asked, excitedly, was, “Is that popcorn?”

After she brought a bowl into the family room and sat down, she asked me, “If Joe Biden had gotten the nomination, would you vote for him?”

My response was a scoffing and genuine, “No.”

TFS asked, “Dad, can I put up a _________ sign in our front yard?” Clearly, he's made his decision.

I answered, “I’ll think about it. It’s ten o’clock, Boss, and the debate’s not over until ten-thirty. You can stay up and watch the rest if you don’t give me a hassle about getting up in the morning.”

TFS said, “Thanks, Dad.”

He was asleep on the love seat five minutes later.

This morning, when The Second Beautiful Daughter came down for breakfast before she drove herself and her brother to school, I said to her, “Your brother knows who he wants as our next president. Who do you like?”

“I don’t know,” she said wearily. “I try to listen to people and make sense of it, but I don’t know.”

“Don’t listen to other people,” I counseled. “Politics are a lot like religion. Which religion is the best?” I asked rhetorically. “People believe what they believe and you’re not going to change them.”

George Bush and Hillary Clinton: What's the difference?
“It took me a lot of time to figure out what I believed. From what I’ve seen, Republicans tend to say that you can have more economic freedom, but want to regulate your personal life like concerning abortion or marriage. Democrats tend to say that you can do what you want with your body, but take more of your money and spend it the way they want to. In practice, when either a Democrat or a Republican gets into office, there doesn’t seem to be much difference in what they actually do.

“I want to make my own economic decisions and I want to make my own social decisions. As long as my beliefs and decisions don’t prevent anyone else from pursuing their own happiness, no one should care what I do and I want government to stay out of the way.

“I want good roads, though,” The Second Beautiful Daughter said.

“Yeah, there’s a role for government,” I said, “A common defense, sure. Roads? Probably. Should the government buy people cell phones, though?”

The Second Beautiful Daughter finished the blueberry pancake I made for her and left with her brother for school.

"Good luck on your science test, Boss," I called as I heard the door close.

Friday, September 16, 2016

Dear NFL, I'm Voting With My Feet

There aren't any NFL players like U.S. Naval Academy and Dallas Cowboys
quarterback Roger Staubach any more.
Seriously, folks, when it comes to the National Football League (NFL), which once touted itself as "America's Game," it’s time to “vote with our feet.”

The idea of voting with one’s feet hearkens to a time before e-commerce when people actually had to walk in to a store (using their feet) to buy clothes or groceries or appliances or something else. If the quality of the product or service did not meet a customer’s needs, he or she simply used those same feet to walk out. If a vendor consistently provided a substandard product and if enough feet “voted” to walk out, that business, well, went out-of-business.

For a while now, the entertainment value of the NFL has deteriorated to the point, I believe, that the games are unwatchable. I have three reasons for my belief. First, ambiguous rule changes with which it is difficult for players to comply and often arbitrary interpretation of those rules has dulled the sharp edge the game once had. Second, too many players are criminals and ignorant spoiled brats. Any machine composed of defective parts is, by association, defective. Finally, the game has become less about, as ABC’s Wide World of Sports put it, “the thrill of victory, and the agony of defeat: the human drama of athletic competition,” and more about social justice.

Football is a game in which one team’s gain is the other team’s loss. It’s a game of misdirection. It’s a game of surprise. It’s a band of brothers working together and striving to execute each play perfectly for 60 minutes while the opponent tries to legally disrupt its adversary from its objective. An offense uses running plays to set up a pass. Sometimes, a when a pass play is the obvious choice, the offense calls a draw play. It's a game of risk and reward. It's a game played by modern-day gladiators. At the end of the game, the players, having left their blood, sweat, and tears on the field, walk off the field victors or vanquished.

Over the years, however, the NFL has changed the game, specifically making it more difficult for defenses to defend the pass. “At the moment, the league is dealing with an unusually explosive offensive period in the game's history,” according to Simply the Bets in its January 16, 2016 article “Trends in the NFL Over the Years.” One of the most significant changes has been the addition of the “defenseless player rule.” In short, the NFL created a rule to prevent a player who is considered defenseless from contact:

“It is a foul if a player initiates unnecessary contact against a player who is in a defenseless posture.
(a) Players in a defenseless posture are: [. . .]
(2) A receiver attempting to catch a pass; or who has completed a catch and has not had time to protect himself or has not clearly become a runner. If the receiver/runner is capable of avoiding or warding off the impending contact of an opponent, he is no longer a defenseless player; [. . .]
(b) Prohibited contact against a player who is in a defenseless posture is:
(1) Forcibly hitting the defenseless player’s head or neck area with the helmet, facemask, forearm, or shoulder, regardless of whether the defensive player also uses his arms to tackle the defenseless player by encircling or grasping him; and
(2) Lowering the head and making forcible contact with the top/crown or forehead/”hairline” parts of the helmet against any part of the defenseless player’s body.”

While no one wants to see a player injured, it is nearly impossible during a game situation to determine whether a player is defenseless. In addition, a proper tackling technique includes a “head up” and “explode” components. It is almost impossible to use proper tackling and not frequently make helmet-to-helmet contact. If the official’s often arbitrary determination that a player is defenseless, a defensive player who does everything right is penalized. These calls routinely affect the outcome of games.

More importantly, these and other rule has impacted game strategy. Time was, when a receiver ran a post pattern and looked back for the ball, the defensive back would “light him up” to reinforce that gridiron real estate belongs to the defense. If the receiver wanted to use it, then he'd have to pay a price. Such games within a game don’t exist anymore. All offense and no strategy makes the NFL a dull league.

As an aside, it is my humble opinion that the explosive growth of fantasy football and associated quasi-gambling sites like FanDuel and others are a natural consequence of these rule changes. The average fan can no longer watch the game because it no longer provides drama. He or she has to build his own virtual team, watch those players, and create some excitement on their own. It no longer really matters which team wins as long as a fantasy football player's quarterback throws four touchdown passes or a running back rushes for 100 yards.
Indicted for Domestic Assault: Johnny Manziel
A class act all the way

Next, I find it difficult to respect any athlete or performer who lacks character and integrity. Call me old school. Call me obstinate. Of course, no one is perfect, but it seems that the NFL has more than its share of criminals among its ranks. Among the criminals on the NFL payroll is Johnny Manziel who, according the to Dallas Morning News on April 26, 2016, "was charged with misdemeanor assault. He is accused of kidnapping, hitting and threatening to kill Colleen Crowley earlier this year."

A partial list of some of the other NFL employees who have beaten women, sexually assaulted women, abused animals, fired a gun into a crowd, hit a pedestrian with an automobile and fled the scene, resisted arrest, and/or abused children includes:

Montee Ball
Domestic violence
Accused of disorderly conduct and battery after allegedly striking his girlfriend in the face.
Resolution undetermined. Team released him the next week.
J.J. Worton
Accused of assault and battery after fight at a bar in Foxboro, Mass.
Pleaded guilty to misdemeanors.
Ahmad Brooks
Sexual battery
Accused of misdemeanor sexual battery stemming from a December 2014 incident at the home of teammate Ray McDonald.
Resolution undetermined.
Justin Cox
Domestic violence
Accused of domestic violence, trespassing and burglary in Mississippi.
Resolution undetermined. Released by team the next day.
Andrew Quarless
Accused of firing a gun in public in Miami Beach, a misdemeanor offense.
Pleaded no contest, $1,000 fine, one year probation, gun safety and anger management classes.
Brandon Spikes
Accused of leaving the scene of a crash in which a woman and boy in another car suffered minor injuries.
Cut by team the next day. Pleaded guilty to multiple charges, one year of probation.
Prince Shembo
Animal cruelty
Accused of killing ex-girlfriend's Yorkie dog, which showed extensive injuries. Charged with felony aggravated animal cruelty.
Pleaded guilty to misdemeanor cruelty charge, $1,000 fine, community service. Released by team same day.
Alex Okafor
Evading arrest
Accused of running from the scene after police received a report of a disturbance and then tried to detain him in Austin, Texas.
Resolution undetermined.
Bruce Miller
Domestic violence
Suspected of misdemeanor battery in domestic incident in Santa Clara, Calif.
Pleaded no contest to misdemeanor domestic violence charge, 16 weeks of counseling.
Letroy Guion
Drugs, gun
Pulled over in Florida, accused of felony drug possession with 357 grams of marijuana. He also had a gun and $190,000 in cash.
Deferred prosecution, probation.
Terrence Cody
Animal cruelty, drugs
Charged with two felony counts of aggravated animal cruelty after one of his dogs died, illegal possession of alligator and marijuana.
Convicted of misdemeanor neglect, acquitted by judge of felony charges. Released by team the same day.
Jermaine Cunningham
Gun, privacy invasion
Accused of spreading sexual images, criminal mischief and illegally transporting a gun found in his Audi.
Pleaded guilty to invasion of privacy and gun charge, three years of probation, counseling.
Jonathan Dwyer
Domestic violence
Suspected of aggravated assault in incident involving woman.
Pleaded guilty to disorderly conduct, 18 months probation, community service.
Adrian Peterson
Child abuse
Grand jury indicted him on felony charge of injury to a child. Accused of injuring his 4-year-old son with a tree branch while disciplining him.
Pleaded no contest to misdemeanor reckless assault, 80 hours community service, $4,000 fine, court costs.
Keelan Johnson
Accused of striking police officer, disorderly conduct during disturbance at a bar in Tempe, Ariz.
Pleaded guilty to aggravated assault.
Ray Rice
Domestic violence
Accused of striking his wife at Atlantic City casino, rendering her unconscious.
Diversion program. Two-game suspension, then indefinite suspension, cut by team.

This is only a small sample of the crimes for which NFL player have been arrested. Many more can be seen at on the USAToday website at http://www.usatoday.com/sports/nfl/arrests/. Accessed on September 13, 2016, the database shows 829 arrest, indictment, and/or conviction records. Considering each of the 32 teams is allowed 53 players on their active rosters and five players on the practice squad, there are only 1,696 active NFL players at any given time. Would you do business with any organization that employed nearly 900 criminals?

Finally, the straw, or rather the cinderblock, that broke the camel’s back, at least or mine, is the disrespect for a country that has allowed an NFL player to make millions of dollars is, yes, Colin Kaepernick’s decision kneel during the National Anthem. Rather than to pay respect to the men and women who have provided his First Amendment rights, he and dozens of other players chose to "take a knee" rather than stand during the playing of The Star-Spangled Banner.

According to Spotrac.com, by the way, “Colin Kaepernick signed a 6 year, $114,000,000 contract with the San Francisco 49ers, including a $12,328,766 signing bonus, $61,000,000 guaranteed, and an average annual salary of $19,000,000. In 2016, Kaepernick will earn a base salary of $11,900,000, a roster bonus of $2,000,000 and a workout bonus of $400,000. Kaepernick has a cap hit of $15,890,753 while his dead money value is $19,697,260.”

One-hundred fourteen. Million. Dollars.

Let's get this straight. In the country that has provide Mr. Kaepernick the opportunity to make a guaranteed $61 million dollars for playing football, he refuses to pay it respect. Yes, the flag and The Star-Spangled Banner are symbols. Yes, the people in the United States continue to strive to address and resolve our disagreements. Yes, Mr. Kaepernick and others have the right to their speech. Yet, the same media and social justice crusaders who defend Kaepernick for taking a knee to protest the things for which he believes the United States stands disparages others for taking a knee to practice another freedom.

It is also disappointing that other NFL players who have a contrary opinion lack the courage or fear the recriminations from the league or the media. Where is this generation of NFL on-the-field leaders like Reggie White? Or Gale Sayers? Or Roger Staubach? Or Dan Dierdorf? Or Walter Payton? Where are the retired elder statesmen who still work in the NFL like John Elway, Ozzie Newsome, Martin Mayhew, and Doug Williams? As for this generation of NFL players, there don't appear to be many leaders. One might ask the elder statesmen the reason for their silence.

As a man and who grew up with a passion for an NFL team, whose family had season tickets to the "Big Red" St. Louis Cardinals at Busch Memorial Stadium during the 1970’s and 1980’s, who has since attended many football games, who's bought my share of NFL gear, and who has been a consumer of DirecTV’s NFL Sunday Ticket, I'm voting with my feet. The NFL has lost its edge, is played by criminals, and managed by hypocrites. This is no longer America's Game and you won’t catch me watching much football on Sundays any more.